Simple Web Button to turn Particle led on

Have you also looked at this tutorial?

While it is dated (some of the image links are broken) and you will need to replace https://api.spark.io/ with https://api.particle.io/ now, the fundamentals have not changed.

A more recent approach would be the Particle API JS (in particular callFunction())

This does require some basic HTML and JS knowledge but building that that is beyond the the scope of this forum.