Hi, are you setting the remote like this?
To connect the PS4 controller via Bluetooth, press and hold the central PS Button and the Share button for three seconds until the lightbar at the top of the controller begins to flash.
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Not sure if this can be done though. Not sure if the remote is Bluetooth or BLE, since:
## Bluetooth Classic (BR/EDR) vs. Bluetooth Low Energy (BLE)
The first important thing you should know is that the two protocols are incompatible with each other. A Bluetooth Classic device cannot communicate with a Bluetooth Low Energy device.
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Cheers!