The display you’ve bought uses the NT7108C controller.
As far as I know, no one has written a library for this for the Particle platform just yet.
A couple of options:
You could have a look at the Adafruit 1306 library (you’ll find this in Particle Build), and adapt this library to work with your controller. Adafruit have also written an easy to use and well commented graphics library for this, and @peekay123 has also made an adaptation that supports multiple font sizes (which is great thanks @peekay123!!!)
You’ll find example code for this display on the Newhaven Display app notes page, however it looks to be written in basic which isn’t ideal.
Now my personal opinion is that unless you have a really good reason for using this display, just go with one of the Adafruit 1306 displays. I have just spent 3 whole days brushing up my C++ adapting the Adafruit library to work with a Newhaven SSD1325 (which is probably a lot more similar to the SSD1306 than your driver is). I’m not sure how experienced you are at programming but even for a good programmer, it isn’t a trivial job, as each display works a little differently.